Inner Certainty

Albert Einstein is quoted as saying, “The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe.” And it seems to me there are 2 types of people, depending on which of those you believe. As a former worrier and over thinker, I definitely didn’t have a strong…Continue Reading

How to be OK with Uncertainty

How to be OK with Uncertainty

When we’re so afraid and scared of uncertainty and of the future, we can close ourselves off to possibility. There is so much unknown in the midst of this global pandemic, the Coronavirus. We don’t know when it’s going to come to an end and when everyone will be able to return to their normal…Continue Reading

When You Don’t Feel Good Enough

One thing that I hear from women a lot is that they struggle with their sense of worthiness. They’re feeling like they’re not good enough, with low self esteem, and feeling like they’ve lost their confidence. Just imagine that you are holding in your arms an exquisite, precious new born baby and imagine looking down…Continue Reading

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Are you a people pleaser? If you do a lot for others and put your own needs last, but often end up feeling taken advantage of, there’s a good chance you are. Traditionally, people pleasing was typically believed to be what a “good woman” does. But years of people pleasing can leave us lonely, resentful…Continue Reading

How to Stop Worrying What Others Think of You

How much do you care what people think? Is it driving you? I wasted so much time and energy imagining that others were judging me, or might judge me. Wanting to gain approval and avoid disapproval was such a big driver for my actions, instead of doing what felt most right for me. It would…Continue Reading

When Life Doesn’t Turn Out the Way You Thought

It’s pretty confronting when it dawns on you. I’ve felt it a few times through my life. Can you remember a moment (or maybe you’re there right now) when you realised “this isn’t how it was supposed to be”? There’s a very wise quote (I don’t know who said it first) that says, “The key…Continue Reading

Mindful Driving

How often have you driven somewhere and then when you arrive, you don’t even remember driving? This is an opportunity you can practice being in the moment. So, the next time you get in your car, feel the seat underneath you. Feel the steering wheel in your hands and pay attention to what’s going on…Continue Reading